Candor is simply noticing. It isn’t belligerence, anger, or being in someone’s face.
I met a leader who had a brace on his arm. After shaking hands and observing social graces, I said, I notice your brace.
He said, I had polio when I was a child.
I don’t know much about polio so I asked some questions. Is it progressive? Does it bother you?
Jump right into something that others might not bring up . Be known for caring honesty.